It is possible that your online experience is affected by your NAT type. 

In general:

NAT 1 can be connected with NAT 1, NAT 2 and NAT 3

NAT 2 can be connected with NAT 1 and NAT 2, but not NAT 3

NAT 3 can be connected with NAT 1, but not NAT 2 or NAT 3

For more information, consult the following articles on testing your PlayStation® system’s connection and Xbox One multiplayer solutions:

http://manuals.playstation.net/document/en/ps4/settings/nw_test.html

http://support.xbox.com/en-US/xbox-one/networking/nat-error-solution

See also:

Co-op / Multiplayer Instructions

[XBOX1] Can't join a friend's game / Game session no longer available